I was just listening this song “Purani Jeans” today evening, and it was sudden that few words which just refilled my mind with old Memories. Instantly after that I was going through my old mails and group mails through which we shared a lot of Love, care and off course Anger.
Today, we write hundred thousand of professional and sometime personal mails, we have developed so called effective e-mail writing skills but those mail don’t even reflect the true feelings. We had learned to hide the things, write the things in a way so that its not offended by recipient and in this all we simply miss the true feeling which are missing from our communication.
Is it a cost which we are paying for our profession? I don’t have time to even write down or tell my true feelings to my loved ones, Usually I answer my phones, hey!!! I am in meeting or going to a meeting, can we talk later? Or some times when any friend or family member want to say something we don’t have time or enough attention to pay to those factors. Some time I feel that I should go back to those days again and live the life to its fullest. But does it really means to go back and live. Why I can’t I live in present in the way I want? Now, I have everything I needed at that time. Answer comes from Mind, hey!!! Man you have lot of responsibilities,manage office work, work harder to get promotions and ratings. Is life today only means just paying your bills and getting ratings?
In Morning today, I called my uncle after about 7 to 8 months. The person with whom I used to share a lot of things, he was always there whenever I needed him. And now I am calling him after so much gap?
I am questioning this to myself. I have to find some solution out for this else there is no difference between me and this machine on which I am writing all this.
Hope to come up with something which solves this and let some of the grudges go away from my heart. I want to feel the same way towards every person as I felt when I known them for the first time.
Imran
Life changes...and so do relationships.
ReplyDeleteAs someone once remarked, "The only thing constant in life is Change".
This might be the time when work comes to the forefront, yet the ones who really mean much in life won't go far away from you. It might be ages before you talk to them, but they know and so do you that the bond of care in between exists.